Wouldn’t it be nice to be one of those women who just instinctively know how to make a guy chase them? Wouldn’t it also be nice to be able to sit back and not be the one doing all the work? Would you like to know the secrets of how to make a guy come to you? There are some tips you can use to make a guy chase you; read on to find them out.
As most women have witnessed, guys love to follow the path of least resistance in just about anything they do, but especially in relationships. You can add to a man’s laziness if you allow him to take you for granted by making things too easy for him. If you want a guy to chase you, the secret you must know is that you have to make him want something he cannot have.
How do you make this happen? Make it a challenge for him to have you; make yourself into the prize at the end of his competition. Do this by playing hard to get. Once you have a man’s interest, tease him a little by pulling back. If you are spending time talking with him, walk away for a while and make him come to you to bring you back. If you have exchanged numbers and he wants to get together with you, make him work a little to see you. When he calls, give him the impression that you have other pending engagements and the two of you will have to work through some of these to find a good time for you to get together. Make sure that you let him know that you definitely want to see him; just don’t make it too easy.
You must be sure to maintain that level of interest even after a relationship gets off the ground. You will only keep him chasing you if you continue to make him feel that he has to fight hard to keep you. Men love a challenge so keep yourself unavailable at times, and keep a little mystery surrounding your reasons for being so. You can bet that he will be constantly wondering what and who you are involved with, and he will attempt to spend time with you whenever he can. Pay attention to how hard he works to win you and you can decide whether he is the right guy for you. All of a sudden, you are in the driver’s seat and you have learned the art of making a man chase you.