No woman can wait forever! She wants her boyfriend or the man she has been seriously dating for months to produce the ring and propose! Besides, most women have grown up nurturing the hope of Prince Charming coming her way and asking her to marry him! If you are in this position and need some help to make your man propose read these tips!
Pushing him won’t work
It has been proved time and time again that pressure does not really work. And even if you do force him to marry you then you can never be convinced in your heart of his love and true feelings for you. The best way is to wait and give him time to propose.
Don’t be too obvious
It is good to subtly hint that you want him to propose, but leaving obvious “loud” signs like leaving wedding magazines all over the place or steering him by “Tiffany’s” and exclaiming over the rings, will make him embarrassed and resentful.
Show him you don’t like being kept “hanging”
If your man has been taking his own sweet time to propose and seems to be comfortable with just dating – let him know that you think it is a good time for you to start making new friends and also date others. If he intends to marry you – he will be horrified with the idea and will quickly produce the ring!
Create a little distance
Don’t allow your man to get the benefits of marriage without the actual “ring”! If he seems reluctant to marry you – let him know that you want something more! Create a little distance and cool off! This will make him realize that he could lose you for good and make a decision regarding the future.
Look for signals
Whether you like it or not, it is better to look for signs and signals that tell you about his intentions and feelings towards marriage. Mentioning the future, kids and marriage will show you if he is for or against commitment. You can work accordingly to get him to propose.
An ultimatum is a last resort
If your man seems impervious to any sort of hints or is being deliberately “dumb” when it comes to settling down and marriage to you, then maybe it is time to tell him that since he is so opposed to commitment you think it is time to find some one who isn’t. This will get you the desired result in a jiffy!
Take away the doubts and fears
Talking about his fears and doubts will get him to face them and also overcome them. If he realizes that you are the woman who can be a wonderful life partner, he will be more open to considering a future with you.